Polyamorous Every Day<p>Had a visitor for dinner yesterday. <br>A person who has been an acquaintance within the polyamory community that has grown to a friend as we were both at PolyCon.<br>One of the nice things whitin this community (and some other queer contexts) is that is was possible to straight up ask "Is this a friend date or a date date?" <br>The response was basically "We will see." And then developed with that he during some time have felt that there is an interest between us. And I explained how at least currently I don't have the mental bandwidth for relationship changes until most parts of life feel more stable. So a little more date date for him and friend date for me 🙃<br>But we had a good evening talking mainly about old things like clothes and furniture 🧥<br><a href="https://toots.nu/tags/PolyamorousEveryDay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PolyamorousEveryDay</span></a> <br><a href="https://toots.nu/tags/Polyamcommunity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Polyamcommunity</span></a><br><a href="https://toots.nu/tags/Polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Polyamory</span></a><br><a href="https://toots.nu/tags/FriendDateOrDateDate" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FriendDateOrDateDate</span></a><br><a href="https://toots.nu/tags/Communication" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Communication</span></a></p>