Tomorrow I am having a housewarming party
None of my partners can come. But a few "exes", some flirty peeps and a bunch of friends. One friend is bringing two of his partners
Basically the only one that is not part of the polyamourous community at the party will be my brother
Will be fun to see what happens

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Tonight I am texting with my friend/date/something about how our last hang outs/dates have been. What parts do we want forward? How do we set the right expectations for our hang outs/dates? And so on.
I really enjoy how clear and detailed it is possible to get in the texts we send. How we agree that our friendship is the most important thing for us both. But how do we want the rest around that to work?
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Had a visitor for dinner yesterday.
A person who has been an acquaintance within the polyamory community that has grown to a friend as we were both at PolyCon.
One of the nice things whitin this community (and some other queer contexts) is that is was possible to straight up ask "Is this a friend date or a date date?"
The response was basically "We will see." And then developed with that he during some time have felt that there is an interest between us. And I explained how at least currently I don't have the mental bandwidth for relationship changes until most parts of life feel more stable. So a little more date date for him and friend date for me
But we had a good evening talking mainly about old things like clothes and furniture
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#FriendDateOrDateDate
#Communication

Yesterday I had my shortest date yet with Slow Lori. She had spent 3 weeks up north with one of her partners, dancing, skiing and holding a dance course.
Driving back down south she could take the detour to spend a long lunch with me.
We had a really lovely three hours with sex, talking and eating
I have missed her touch very much lately so being together was balm for my soul
I don't understand how Slow Lori has the energy to spend the whole day driving but I am so, so grateful for it
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#LongDistanceRelationships

Today Slow Lori drove home from her long distance relationship partner. So we talked for over an hour while she was driving.
One of the first topics was the news that Slow Lori and another more low intensity partner had broken up after having a hard time communicating during the week. It has almost happened a few times before but now it felt "final".
But the break up freed up a March weekend in Slow Loris calender that we quickly booked for her to come visit me instead just after I have moved
There is a swedish saying that works well here "Inget ont som inte har nått gott med sig."
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#BreakUp

Slow Lori has a partner that lives 10 hours of driving away from her. It is becoming a bit of a tradition that I keep her company through a phone call for some of it.
So today we did two calls, one while I was having lunch and one while I was traveling home from work
Now I just got the text that she has arrived safely
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#PhoneCalls
#DrivingCompany
#LongDistanceRelationship

The biggest elements of my day;
Long work day as we went on an out of town meeting.
Then dinner and a little snuggle with Lion.
Then talking dates and moving plans with Slow Lori on the phone.
Then packing a moving box full of glass and tin jars.
Finally the night routine of a doggo walk together with Lion and getting ready for bed
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Yesterday Gray Fox was over for dinner and watching the final two episodes of Good Omens
We are not "together" any more but there is still greating kisses being exchanged and some flirtyness in the air. We even talked about adding some "benefits" to our friendship. Time will tell where it flows.
During the end of the evening Gray Fox and Lion went into the mode of being programming nerds. Fray Fox is going to a conference soon that Lion has a lot of experience off. I do enjoy them getting along
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#RelationshipChanges
#GoodOmens

Gosh life is moving fast right now!
So far this year has contained:
I have been asked to move out from my co-living partner (hoping to stay partners moving apart).
Visited a polyfriend & her partner in the countryside for support, sauna and walks in a winter wonderland.
Gotten an apartment that I am moving to in March that I actually feel very excited about
Had a long weekend with Slow Lori that was very healing. And where she came with me to my hometown. Showing her my grandparents house and playing games with my mother.
Gotten so much support from friends, family and colleagues.
Packed the first moving boxes.
Re-explored having a BDSM-dynamik with a friend/ex-date where we also talked soooo much about other relationships.
Gone trough so many feelings!
Thanking my lucky star for the network of support I have around me in this big change that I did not anticipate
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#Dates
#Support
#LifeChanges

I thank my lucky star for polyamory and the community it has brought
The heavy relationship news I got last week is that Lion that I am co-living with wants me to move out. So now I am searching for a new place to live.
The news really pulled away one of the most stable parts of my life and rewrote everything I imagined about 2025.
But the people I can vent to and get love from are amazing

Will go to Slow Lori over the weekend and hope I can get some rest in feeling wholeheartedly loved and that my presence is wished
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Got some heavy relationship news last night.
Today I texted 3 of my closest friends (that I all meet through being poly). I said I needed a friend, lots of tea and many tissues. Within an hour all three had replied with different offers of meet ups tonight
I choose the offer of with a sauna and a sleep over.
It is amazing having such good friends from the polyamory community
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I am sorting my stuff and trying to reduce it. I just decided this painting book needs a new home. In thinking about who I could give it to the fort option in my mind was little M, who is a child of K who is one of Slow Loris partners
So texted Slow Lori to ask if M or one of Slow Loris kids like painting books and wants it Hoping for a yes as it is always easier to give away stuff then donate or especially throw away for me
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I have been sick in a cold/flu since Christmas day. I am definitely on the recovering side of things as I today have done quite a bit of digital flirting

This evening has been Lion playing on his PC with his friends in his headphones while I have been on the couch texting about sexy things with the friend I talked about the other day. And our doggo has been snoozing in the middle
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There is something special with how some relationships flows in and out of dynamics.

So like two years ago I responded to a dating ad in a poly group. It resulted in quite sexual and explorative dates for about half a year and then we stopped seeing each other.
We reconnected this summer during pride week and the trust/intemacy we had while dating remained so we have had really deep conversation about relationships and (heavy, complex) feelings. During my first Christmas I could spill my guts about all the complex family feelings I was having. Today they felt lonely and asked for support
Since we have dated some flirtyness are available to play with. The other day they mentioned being a little interested in doing some of the more experimental parts of our relationship again. So there were hints about that in today's texting.
I am both so intrigued exploring that again but also hesitate as I really like the confidant I have in them right now...
We got some talking about expectations to do I believe
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#RelationshipFluidity
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Today it is a year ago since Slow Lori and I first kissed each other

Very grateful that we ended that dance going to the cosy corner instead of just off the dance floor.
Grateful towards another polyperson that did arrange so there where two evenings of dancing after each other, making it worth for Slow Lori to visit them.
Very grateful to my polyfriend that introduced me to those dance evenings and keeps booking in that we should go together
When I think of it, it is a community effort creating opportunities for people to meet, be friendly and potentially flirt
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#CelebratingOneYearOfKissing
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#Polyfriends
#Polyamory

Today Lions mother was over for dinner
For dessert I could offer the "dream cake" (drömtårta in Swedish) that me and Slow Lori baked the other day
Drömtårta has a thin chocolate sponge cake as a base that is rolled with a sweet vanilla flavored butter cream
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#Drömtårta

This evening I will travel to Slow Lori and work from her place for a few days.
The day before date travels generally become cleaning days.
Yesterday was no exception. Cleaning the kitchen, the tables, folding laundry and a few other 5 min clean ups that's been procastrinated
It feels good trying to leave the home in good shape for Lion to live in while I am gone.
Do you have any routines before leaving for a date?
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#LongDistanceRelationship
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Started the day with a digital hangout with a polyfriend in Germany. They will soon give birth to their first child so we talked a lot about that.
The child will have three parents. My friend & their 2 partners.
Spoke about that some of the grandparents & great grandparents does not know about the polyamourous relationship & one of the partners parent's aren't very accepting. That is a shame & complication.
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#PolyParents
#Triad
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The thing with that my partners are mainly computer geeks means that I have several people I need to brag to when I do something computery
Like today when I did a bunch of software updates and cleansing the new laptop of unnecessary Microsoft apps
Let's see who says I have been good first
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#NewLaptop
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#ComputerGeeks